{"id":73,"date":"2016-07-26T12:01:01","date_gmt":"2016-07-26T11:31:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/doxaconsultores.com.mx\/Newsletter\/?p=73"},"modified":"2016-07-26T11:32:24","modified_gmt":"2016-07-26T11:32:24","slug":"cuando-es-mejor-abandonar-una-conversacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doxaconsultores.com.mx\/Newsletter\/management-tip\/cuando-es-mejor-abandonar-una-conversacion\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo es mejor abandonar una conversaci\u00f3n?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"border-color: #c2d9e7;\" class=\"\">\n<table border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" width=\"100%\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"background-color: #ffffff; border-top: 0px solid transparent; border-right: 0px solid transparent; border-bottom: 0px solid transparent; border-left: 0px solid transparent; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\" bgcolor=\"#ffffff\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/staticapp.icpsc.com\/icp\/loadimage.php\/mogile\/769356\/58250685619ad89476dc0fc86c6c471a\/image\/jpeg\" style=\"width: 601px;\" width=\"601\"><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" style=\"border-color: #c2d9e7;\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"lados: 100px solid transparent; padding-izquierda: 0px; color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"color: #29aae2;\"><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\"><strong>Managemet Tip<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" style=\"border-color: #c2d9e7;\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"line-height: 13px; text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"color: #29aae2;\"><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo es mejor abandonar una conversacion?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"border-color: #c2d9e7;\" class=\"\">\n<table border=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" width=\"100%\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"background-color: #ffffff; border-top: 0px solid transparent; border-right: 0px solid transparent; border-bottom: 0px solid transparent; border-left: 0px solid transparent; padding-top: 20px; padding-right: 50px; padding-bottom: 40px; padding-left: 50px; lados: 0px none transparent; color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\" bgcolor=\"#ffffff\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Todo l\u00edder enfrenta la necesidad de dar feedback sobre comportamientos negativos, sea un colaborador o un colega de trabajo. Pero <strong>no toda conversaci\u00f3n debe ocurrir<\/strong>&nbsp;o al menos inmediatamente. Hay casos en que resulta mejor evitarla en ese momento.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Antes de tener una conversaci\u00f3n, conviene <strong>hacernos algunas preguntas<\/strong>, por ejemplo: Siendo realista \u00bfqu\u00e9 voy a obtener? \u00bfHay algo que me mueve a provocar un problema con esta persona? \u00bfQuiero tener \u201cla raz\u00f3n\u201d? \u00bfHabr\u00eda una soluci\u00f3n razonable que yo pueda proponer?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><strong>Si las respuestas indican<\/strong> que esta situacion puede resolverse por s\u00ed misma, que tu intervenci\u00f3n no es indispensable, que te interesa tener la raz\u00f3n y no tanto escuchar, entonces no es buena idea tener esta conversaci\u00f3n en este momento. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Cuando alguna situaci\u00f3n puede sacarnos de nuestro <strong>nivel de control emocional<\/strong>, no es aconsejable abordarla as\u00ed, pues si me enojo, reduzco mi efectividad al no ser objetivo ni asertivo, y no consigo que el otro se d\u00e9 cuenta de lo que no est\u00e1 haciendo bien.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Un l\u00edder <strong>elige sus batallas<\/strong>: cu\u00e1les tener y en qu\u00e9 momento. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">Podemos elegir mejor nuestras conversaciones si tenemos presente que lo importante siempre es el <strong>resultado que obtendremos<\/strong>. Al desarrollar la capacidad de escoger no-tener algunas conversaciones, podremos estar tranquilos que aquellas que escojamos tener, ser\u00e1n porque hay temas y motivos v\u00e1lidos para hacerlo, y veremos los resultados positivos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">\u00c1ngel Rivero<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"font-size: 12px;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma,geneva,sans-serif;\">Lectura recomendada: \u00abWhen to skip a difficult conversation\u00bb, de Deborah Grayson Riegel, en Harvard Business Review (HBR) mar 2016.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" style=\"border-color: #c2d9e7;\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: right; margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"color: #bacfdd;\">En colaboraci\u00f3n con HBR. &nbsp;<span style=\"white-space: pre;\"> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" style=\"display: block;\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" style=\"border-color: #c2d9e7;\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<a href=\"http:\/\/click.icptrack.com\/icp\/relay.php?r=56397272&#038;msgid=387789&#038;act=VBFN&#038;c=769356&#038;destination=http%3A%2F%2Fdoxaconsultores.com.mx%2FNewsletter%2Fregistrate%2F\" style=\"color: #000000;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/doxaconsultores.com.mx\/images\/registro.png\" style=\"margin: 0px; border: 0px solid #000000; display: inline;\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" style=\"display: block;\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"background-color: #29aae2; lados: 0px none transparent; color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\" bgcolor=\"#29aae2\">\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" style=\"border-color: #c2d9e7; display: block;\">\n<table width=\"100%\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"word-wrap: break-word; table-layout: fixed;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"background-color: #29aae2; lados: 0px none transparent; color: #000000; font-family: 'Arial'; font-size: 13px;\" bgcolor=\"#29aae2\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0; margin-left: 0; margin-right: 0; margin-top: 0; padding: 0;\">  \t<span style=\"color: #ffffff; font-size: 10px;\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Managemet Tip &nbsp; &nbsp; \u00bfCu\u00e1ndo es mejor abandonar una conversacion? 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